Dating an older white man

Posted by / 16-Oct-2017 05:26

How did/does the age gap impact your relationship once you were in it?Woman A: Like most 18-year-olds, I did not have much relationship experience, so it was easier for him to get away with things I would not have tolerated had I had a better sense of what a healthy relationship should feel like. We began dating when I was on winter break during my freshman year in college.

But again, I think it's more because of who he is, rather than the more experience.

Did/does it impact sex at all, for better or for worse? This was one of the many ways the relationship was emotionally abusive — sex was always ostensibly on the table, but no matter how much I threw myself at him, I was always rejected. The fact that this man didn't want to have sex with me in spite of claiming to love me, in spite of the fact that men allegedly always want sex, in spite of the fact that they allegedly especially want sex with much younger women — all of this made the continual rejection especially painful. We have different tastes sexually — I'm more adventurous — but that has nothing to do with age.

If anything, his emotional maturity has allowed us to have those tough conversations about sex.

I think that because I was 18, he had expectations that I would be wild and crazy and open to anything.

There were things that he expected with his party lifestyle that I felt very uncomfortable with, but would ignore my instinct and go along with to make him happy.

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  1. One of my passions is travel, I have a great family, friends and a career..I am missing my best friend, the special ONE to share my life with, to have a committed relationship that is built on mutual love, respect and honesty. I am looking for a woman who is ready for a mature relationship and to share her life's passions and dreams with me. I'm passionate about finding a person to share feelings with. I am looking for someone who will wipe away my sorrow and create happinesswithing my life and the person life too.... I want someone who will treat me welland likes to be treated well in return.